Funeral and Memorial Service
A Funeral Ceremony is...
T
a time of mourning
T
a time to share grief
T
an opportunity to pay tribute to the person who has died
T
an acknowledgement of past relationships
T
a step towards healing
T
a time to nurture family and friends
T
a celebration of a life once lived
Dear Merrilyn, it was a sad day just before Christmas when my father
passed away and I called on your skill as a celebrant to help us through
the funeral. I know it was a particularly busy time for you both personally
and professionally and the time you gave us was far more than we would
have imagined. Your patience, warmth, genuine sincerity, sensitivity
and attentiveness in our time of grief were overwhelming. You created
the space and opportunity to share our memories of dad and respected
our wishes and ideas. Your beautiful words so accurately represent this
in the ceremony in a way that captured the essence of the man he'd been
and his relationship with his family. The ceremony was beautiful reflecting
our personal, cultural and spiritual beliefs and individually tailored
with some very special touches creating an uplifting and joyous ceremony
which gave us the opportunity to pay tribute to his life. Your approach
was caring, supportive and professional, and helped us as a family to
share our grief and assist with the healing process. On behalf of my
family I would like to thank you Merrilyn, for the incredible effort
you made at a highly emotional time. You helped to make this time of
grief a celebration of my father's life. Thanks again. Lyndel
Dear Merrilyn, thank you for your wonderful services for Jason's
funeral. Your kindness and support is greatly appreciated. Sally
Dear Merrilyn, I'm taking this opportunity to THANK YOU for the
way you conducted the service for my dad last Saturday. Mum made an
excellent choice, as your care and feeling certainly shone through.
Several of my friends commented on what a lovely person you are. Thank
you also for your loving support towards Mum. I'm sure it has helped
her through this difficult time. Kaye
Dear Merrilyn, thank you so much for your warmth, caring and professionalism
during this difficult time for us. I know I can speak with confidence
on behalf of the whole family to express our most sincere thanks. Warmest
regards, Claire
A Funeral Ceremony for your
baby is...
T
a time to express your love for your baby who died
T
a recognition of your baby's importance in your family
T
an opportunity to share lasting memories of your child
T
a time to share grief wilth your loved ones
T
a time to reflect your thoughts, feelings and emotions in ways that
are right for you
A Memorial Service is...
T
similar to a funeral service
T
a celebration of a precious and unique life
T
is usually held at a later date - after burial or cremation
Dear Merrilyn, thank you for a fantastic first draft, you
captured his life and our loss with great sensitivity. I have made some
changes, adding additional information…my sincere thanks once again.
Christine
Dear Merrilyn, many thanks for putting together such a beautiful
service for a very special man. Heather
A living funeral is ...
T is
one which celebrates the life of a person suffering a terminal illness.
T
offers the opportunity to celebrate your own life and your relationships.
This way you spend time with your important people giving them the chance
to thank you for your influence in their lives, you can speak your own
truths, say your goodbyes ... and enjoy the party afterwards!
Reflect your personal,
cultural and spiritual beliefs
in a specially created
funeral or memorial ceremony
to honour your loved
one.